Surviving the first year of motherhood can easily feel like the most daunting of tasks. Recovering from pregnancy and delivery, suffering through sleep deprivation, dealing with hormonal changes as well as being challenged by a baby’s ever evolving developmental stages will test the resolve of all novice mothers. New moms should plan to sleep when the baby does, take advice sparingly, know when to ask for help, make personal time a priority and enjoy the little things.
It is imperative that new mothers learn to sleep when the baby does. Forget cleaning the house and know that laundry can wait. Being well-rested is the easiest way to recover from delivery and have the strength to face the challenges of daily life.
Take Advice Sparingly
Everyone will have a piece of advice for new mothers. Most moms quickly learn to graciously accept the tips and take everything with a grain of salt as what works for one family, may not work for another. Additionally, learning to trust the mom instinct, instead of blindly following advice, is an important part of growing as a parent.
Know When to Ask for Help
Mothering is exhausting and it is imperative new mothers recognize when to ask for help. Learning to rely on family, friends and trained professionals and accepting offers of assistance, when needed, will benefit all involved.
Make Personal Time a Priority
With day running into night, new mothers need to carve out an occasional few minutes of personal time. A quick shower or brief meal without the baby in tow can give a much needed emotional boost.
Enjoy the Little Things
The first year, with all its milestones, will come and go in a flash. From first smiles, to new words and learning to move, the newest member of the family will delight, dazzle and wow its mother. For new parents bringing home baby, the first birthday party will seem years away. However, in twelve short months it will be time to celebrate a year of growth and accomplishments and will be time to seek out cute gift ideas for Babys First Birthday. New mothers should remember to enjoy all of the special moments that will present throughout the year.
Mothering is a full-time job. Recognizing when to ask for help, knowing how to get some rest and celebrating life will help new moms survive the first year of raising a child with both their health and sanity intact.
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